My child has ADHD and school aren't helping
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)ADHD is recognised as a condition that can create
special educational needs if it affects learning, behaviour, attention, or emotional regulation in school.
Schools in England must follow the framework set out in the
Children and Families Act 2014 and the
Special Educational Needs and Disability Code of Practice.
1. Ask for SEN Support in SchoolEvery mainstream school must provide
SEN Support before anything more formal. This normally means:
- Identifying the child's needs
- Putting adjustments in place
- Creating a SEN Support Plan (sometimes called an IEP)
- Reviewing progress regularly
Examples of support for ADHD might include:
- movement breaks
- reduced distractions in seating
- shorter tasks
- visual instructions
- behaviour and emotional regulation support
- extra adult support
You can
formally ask the SENCO (Special Educational Needs Coordinator) for this support.
2. Ask for an Education, Health and Care (EHC) Needs AssessmentIf the school support is not enough, parents can request an assessment from the local authority.
This is the process that may lead to an
Education, Health and Care Plan.
An EHCP is a
legal document that can require:
- specialist teaching support
- therapy input
- a specialist school placement
- funded one-to-one support
Important point:
Parents can request this assessment directly. The school does not need to agree.
3. If the School Is Ignoring the ProblemYou can escalate in stages:
- Speak to the class teacher
- Request a meeting with the SENCO
- Contact the headteacher
- Use the school's formal complaints process
Keep written records of meetings, emails, examples of difficulties at school.
4. Evidence That HelpsWhen asking for support, evidence strengthens the case:
- ADHD diagnosis or paediatrician letters
- school reports showing difficulties
- behaviour logs
- examples of work
- reports from educational psychologists or therapists
5. Common ADHD Difficulties Schools Must ConsiderSupport should address things like:
- inability to stay seated
- impulsive behaviour
- difficulty completing work
- emotional outbursts
- executive function problems (organisation, starting tasks)
Schools
cannot simply treat this as "bad behaviour."
They have behavioural issues and keep being sent home
If a child with
ADHD is being
sent home repeatedly for behaviour, this is a significant warning sign that the school may not be following the correct SEN procedures.
Children with ADHD often struggle with:
- impulsive behaviour
- emotional regulation
- frustration and meltdowns
- difficulty following instructions
Schools are expected to
support these needs, not simply remove the child from school.
1. Sending a Child Home Informally Is Usually UnlawfulSchools
cannot repeatedly send a child home unless it is a formal exclusion.
Under the
Education Act 2002 and national exclusion guidance, there are only two lawful exclusions:
- Fixed-term suspension
- Permanent exclusion
If the school calls you to collect your child without issuing a formal suspension, this is commonly called an
"informal" or "unofficial" exclusion, which government guidance says should not happen.
2. Behaviour Caused by SEN Must Be ConsideredIf behaviour is linked to special educational needs, the school should first consider support under the
Special Educational Needs and Disability Code of Practice. This usually means:
- a behaviour support plan
- SEN Support through the SENCO
- adjustments to teaching or environment
- possible involvement of specialists
3. If Behaviour Is Severe, the School Should Trigger More SupportRepeated behaviour incidents should normally lead to escalation such as:
- involvement of the SENCO
- an early help assessment
- referrals to behaviour support services
- consideration of an Education, Health and Care Plan
4. What Parents Can Do NowPractical steps:
- Ask the school in writing why your child is being sent home.
- Ask whether these were formal suspensions.
- Request a meeting with the SENCO.
- Ask what SEN support plan is in place for ADHD.
- Consider requesting an EHC needs assessment from your local authority.
5. Things Schools Should Not DoSchools should not:
- repeatedly send a child home without recording exclusions
- treat ADHD behaviour purely as misconduct
- refuse SEN support because behaviour is difficult